Conflict in the Workplace: A Waste of Time and Energy?

I thought today I would write about a subject people tend to avoid, conflict in the workplace.  Webster’s Dictionary defines conflict as the following:

a) competitive or opposing action of incompatibles : antagonistic state or action (as of divergent ideas, interests, or persons) b) mental struggle resulting from incompatible or opposing needs, drives, wishes, or external or internal demands

I define conflict as a clash of perceptions.  Typically conflict arises when two people perceive a situation in two different ways.  More simply put, one person thinks they are “right” and the other is “wrong,” and vice versa.  If people could find a way to lose this “right/wrong” mentality and consider that the other person is looking at the situation differently (not wrongly), I believe the amount of conflict in the corporate world would be drastically reduced. [Read more...]

How About Asking Yourself What’s Right?

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I recently completed a certified professional coach training program at the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC) and it was an amazing experience. I have to say I was extremely nervous going into it, being a civil engineer with a technical background, however I instantly fell in love with coaching and it is now totally natural for me.

As part of the training, one of the books we were required to read was “Breaking the Rules” by Kurt Wright.  The book focuses on being your best and how people and organizations can achieve their maximum potential.  The author states that being at your best cannot occur until you gain real-time access to your intuition or your “right brain.”  This was extremely scary to me being a civil engineer who operates mostly from the analytical portion of the brain or the “left-brain”, however as I read the book I became fascinated with the message. [Read more...]

Paying It Forward in 2010

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Featured Guest Blogger: Angela Cristina Negro
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It’s the New Year.  2009 is now behind us and we are thrust forward into the throes of the unknown that is 2010.  I could do the usual and write about New Year’s resolutions that I will be making and…ahem…keeping…but I thought I would rather talk about a great theme that we should focus on for the next New Year.  The idea came to me after an in-depth conversation with a great friend!

I was thanking my friend Meghan for passing my CV around her office to a few key managers (because I recently quit my job and relocated back to my hometown of Montreal).  And in response to my thanking her, Meghan said the nicest thing; she said that she thought it was the least she could do seeing as someone had helped her get her job and she was just paying it forwardPaying it forward.  Yup, that simple gesture of paying forward the kindness you have experienced from others.

For those of you reading this thinking that Meghan is simply a really nice person, well you’re right!  But she is also a careerist: driven, persistent and ambitious.  And paying it forward is such an important thing for careerists to do, as well.  Here’s why: Continue Reading

The Key to Success Starts With Listening not Answering

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Hello All, I am guest blogging this week for Civil Engineering Central, so click here to read my article about how Listening not Answering is the Key to Success.

Anthony Fasano, P.E., LEED AP, CPC

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